HELP! I've built my girlfriends confidence/selfesteem/voice too much!

[haniblecter]

Its starting to get annoying. She's mothing off, acting very assertive, annoying me, and I'm getting the distinct feeling my mom gives/gave me at times.

Contrast this with when I first met her 6years ago. She was more timid and not as assertive. Asked what we should do or eat, answered with alot of "I dont know's". Now, I do.

What do I do?

Do I just constantly neg her? Be more physical? Shout?


I'm not one to fight (verbal) and tend to have level headed conversations. So I really dont want to just start screaming at her.

idk


advice?

 

[Rovero]

Have a physical fight with her instead.

 

[mjoe]

tell her she looks fat. just call her up right now and say it

 

[aNimAL]

never EVER back down

except for when it's absolutely crucial (you were wrong about something and there's proof)

if you weren't wrong and she's being a bitch, overwhelm, dominate, etc

p.s. if you WERE wrong about something and apologize and she decides to keep rubbing it in your face, it's time for you to rub something... in her face

 

[Teratos]

Sorry, you're a beta and there is nothing that can be done about it.

You've fallen from alpha status. If you rebel now, she'll put you in your place roughly.

 

[SkivviS]

you should moth off to her

 

[GreyGhost]

keep going until shes OVERconfident, then start calling her Kaitlynn

 

[absent]

Teratos is right. It's like with dogs. You've been the bitch now for so long that she took the boss status. You're a good example of the modern effeminate faggoty 'man.'

 

[CERVICAL-KREMS]

build it up with your words

bring it back down with the back of your hand

zen

 

[TeckMan]

smack her around a little bit

 

[Odio]

Rape her in a public place.

 

[Bender]

 

[NoGodForMe]

Is she listening to Beyonce?

Independent Woman. Keep all assets separate.

 

[PantsMcFist]

How do you define mouthing off? Just being snarky/sarcastic?

 

[KnightMare]

leave her right now. When she begs you to take her back you'll be back in control.

 

[haniblecter]

How do you define mouthing off? Just being snarky/sarcastic?

Pretty much that. Im sitting around all day, not doing a whole lot, probably deserve alot of what she says, but in all honesty harping on me only gets you the opposite effect.


Gotta get alpha again. WInter gets me into a mood, but this relationship swing has come about the last 2 years. I think its time to be more alpha and assertive...hell, whenever I come home drunk I yell at her, prolly cause I got pent up angst on her.


But honestly, sitting around, forgoing schoolwork/work, not looking for a real job, taking 'breaks' from bathing all probably gives her the haughtiness she didnt have.


So, get alpha again, get job, moth more.

 

[Xcursion]

Reprogram her.

 

[°Gn0m3_Gr0wN°]

drag your balls across her face then fart on her

 

[Odio]

You have to sexually humiliate her. Fuck her doggy style in front of an open window.

 

[NoFiX]

Next time you fuck her, take a tissue, and wipe her stinky asshole.
Put the tissue directly into her face. Show her what she has created.